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Sick of him.
My foundations of hope
My parents, my brother, my stepsons, my wife, my social workers, and my partners in the 12-step fellowships.
Being Sick this Christmas
Yes, I'm sick - got some kind of bug - but I'm not hung over or high.  I am blessed!
New Members
Its is so exciting to watch our community grow!
"A Knight's Tale" excellen
"Hey Sir," calls William, "what are you doing?" "Uh, Trudging." answers Geoffrey. Th... more

My sobriety, God, my sponsor, my family, my partner, my friends, my pets, my job, my home, my car, my employees, the fel... more
Not a slogan..
Figure It Out is NOT an Alanon slogan..thank goodness :-)
Dick Leider
“Where your gifts and your joy meet the needs of the world, there lies your purpose.”
By Definition
I was once told the definition of “insanity” is “repeatedly doing the same thing over and over expecti... more
Heart Trouble
f you haven't any charity in your heart, you have the worst kind of heart trouble.  ~Bob Hope
Our new President
 I feel a difference in my thinking about the country.  It's like the triangle of AA: recovery, unity and serv... more
Oscar Wilde
Sooner or later we have all to pay for what we do.
Giving to yourself
Lend yourself to others, but give yourself to yourself.   Michel de Montaigne
This Dutch Proverb
Truth has all the benefits of sham without the disadvantages.
common sense...lol (wish i
  Nothing changes if nothing canges..... so simple but sooooooo true ....
Not Afraid
I am not afraid of storms for I am learning how to sail my ship. ~Louisa May Alcott
A Rich Life
In ordinary life we hardly realize that we receive a great deal more than we give, and that it is only with gratitude th... more
There you are...
And remember...no matter where you go...there you are           &... more
Curiosity
Never lost a holy curiosity. Albert Einstein
Fear
To fear is one thing.  To let fear grab you by the tai and swing you around is another.   Katherine Paterson
The Strong Women Around Me
Death is rearing its ugly head in the lives of 3 women with whom I work.  They have each handled their own situatio... more
Trust
I think we may safely trust a good deal more than we do. Henry David Thoreau
Trudging theRoad Of Happy
The Road goes ever on and on; Down from the Door where it began.  Now far ahead the Road has gone; And I must fol... more
Holiness
Can you see the holiness in those things you take for granted – a paved road or a washing machine? If you concentr... more
finding this site..
the internet which opens up tools for recovery and fellowship.

I’ve moved back to my old street. It’s weird and most of the time I am still numb.  I am surrounde... more
Recollection fron Rehab
When I was admitted to my first alcohol detox in 1984, my neuroanatomy was so distracted, discombobulated, and so forth ... more
From WordSpy.com
secondhand drinking n. A negative effect that a drinker has on a non-drinker. http://www.wordspy.com/words/secondhan... more
Furious
"Those who do not recover are people who cannot or will not completely give themselves to this simple program."... more
Dr. Maya Angelou
"We're boring, mostly. We're more alike than different and we all want the same things. We're boring."
Not having a lot of money
I've just been on the phone with my friend who is very frightened about her finances.  She's lost a ton of money in... more
The uncomfortable situatio
They make me pause, stop and think what my true and real heart-felt response wants to be and how I either respect that o... more
The invitation
Let us accept the invitation, ever-open, from the Stillness, taste its exquisite sweetness, and heed its silent instruct... more
this mornings sunrise
Each day is different.  Some days I am clear, on other days, I am confused, and desperate.  At my clearest,&nb... more
this mornings sunrise
Each day is different.  Some days I am clear, on other days, I am confused, and desperate.  At my clearest,&nb... more
Lliving to have another bi
Today is my birthday and I thank God and everyone and every thing in my life for the gifts, the lessons and even the har... more
Alejandro Escovedo
“I’m just happy to be anywhere, really. I’ve got to be quite honest — it’s not as easy as ... more
I am enhancing my
by doing the right thing every day and furthering my education and expanding my horizons
at the OASAS Conference
I'm learning a lot and have been working with OASAS for about two months.  Great conference
that The Second Road is at
This is a great way to talk about their recovery
Being at OASAS
It's been a wonderful experience for us to be here!
love
I think I'm in love. I think its a healthy thing. I'm letting go and trusting and having faith that its safe to love. TH... more
Cloud Cult - "Grandson of
And it's okay if this world Had a billion saviors 'Cause there's so many things to be saved
Dealing with a newcomer wh
I graduated from an out patient group about a year ago. I'm 17 years old now. I continue to go back to my grou... more
Sick AGAIN
Another day at home with nausea and diarrhea.   What the hell is going on? Am I immunosuppressed?  If I take a... more
the contents of my cupboar
and for spending all my money and eating everything in site. Are you going to eat that?
stupid cigarettes
gave myself bronchitis. cuz i simply couldn't wait to smoke after an upper respiratory infection. noone to blame but mys... more
on my way to court.
Part of my wreckage is that I get to re-visit my judge every three months.  Three months is today.  While I've... more
become
the kind of person I would want to marry.
going to take a nap.
Later I'm going to the annual Art in the Park with a friend. Livin' la dolce vita, baby.
using the tools.
No one can do the work for me. I have to do that on my own. I am responsible for my own recovery and that means using th... more
Russell Brand
To teach me all those rules and give me all that information and expect me to remember it is to assume that my brain is ... more
Getting in touch with emot
After loosing the dog on Friday, I've realized it's hard for me to be sad. I walk around acting like I can handle everyt... more
A perfect Labor Day
Taking a luxurious canoe trip down a local river with perfect temperatures, clear water, good food and a clean, sober co... more
Best of all he loved the f
“Best of all he loved the fall … the fall with the tawny and grey, the leaves yellow on the ... more
being in the right place
at the perfect time - to help another addict and to get rid of the bed that wants me dead.
My ex-husband
Whom I convinced to give AA a try.  He has been sober 27 years, and we have remained good friends since our divorce... more
New AA Membership Survey
Periodically Alcoholics Anonymous conducts a survey of members to determine basics such as who A.A.s are (age, sex, occu... more
Helping to make the Second
And I need to demonstrate my commitment with action.  I've formed the group "Crystal Clear" and will set ... more

1515 days off of meth! Holy Crow!
Coming apart at the seams
I feel like I'm about to implode.  Can't seem to totally separate from the active addict in my life.  I'm afra... more
the little things
sometimes they're the only things that get me through
Payday
It's payday and all I can seem to think of is all the STUFF I need.  But I need to pay my rent first. So I'm not ca... more

Hopeful someone will join me in the chat room!
He continued, solemnly:
'Jean Valjean, my brother: you belong no longer to evil, but to good.  It is  your soul that I am buying for y... more
new members!!
I LOVE seeing new faces on the site.
Many parts of recovery
It is hard to believe that after 4 years sober, I am helping to raise a child. I could barely take care of  myself ... more
Loneliness
Alcoholics and addicts are people who treat loneliness with isolation. ~ Anon.
those people who are in my
I was thinking today how lucky I am to have the people that I do in my life.  I have the friends from Al-Anon, coll... more
This Site
 I am simply grateful for this site. It has helped me stay sober and relatively serene another night. Thank you all... more
The Wreckage of My Past
The last two meeting I've attended have had the same topic - the wreckage of our past.  As I strive to go forward, ... more
We well be known
We will be known forever by the tracks we leave. Dakota Proverb

Wondering if I can get through the coming week without Drinking or Using. We will see!
Friends
I'm so grateful for my wonderful friends.
There, but for the grace o
I don’t spend much time regretting the past. There are a lot of things I’ve done that—given the opport... more
Meetings
My favorite meeting is my Thursday night Nar-Anon. Nothing is better. That group keeps me living well!
The Man I Never Met
Great sharing from the AA Grapevine Somebody special came my way a long time ago and I'm now realizing, again, how sp... more
Loving Your Enemies
If the love within your mind is lost and you see other beings as enemies, then no matter how much knowledge or education... more
Tired.
I'm tired and frustrated and I need a meeting!
Chuch Palahniuk Quote
"The first step — especially for young people with energy and drive and talent, but not money — the fir... more

“Just cause you got the monkey off your back doesn't mean the circus has left town.” ~ George Carlin
When the 12 steps just are
I go to several meetings a week.  I need them. I always get something to take with me when I go.  But lately I... more
I'm tired.
Yep. Tired. Good night.
Waiting
It feels like I'm just sitting here waiting for something to happen.  What that something is, I don't know, but I'v... more
Yoga
I am thankful for taking the tie for myself to do yoga this morning. I was lazy last week and didn't make it to class, a... more
My meditation class
Just got back from a meditation class - learning to be still and be in awareness at the same time. What a gift this cla... more
New Group
I've started a new group! Please join me in the Running, Health, and Fitness Group!
Heroin, Crack and Prada Sh
Excellent article in The Telegraph about high-end addicts. http://tinyurl.com/5q6s36
Getting through another ro
I did, I prayed. I asked for help from my Higher Power AND even asked from my boyfriend and friend. It shifted. I can se... more
Anger - Where Are You?
Just got back from a meeting where the topic was anger.  I can't seem to find mine these days.  I feel a littl... more
The Serenity Prayer
Greetings! Here is a link to an article in the New York Times concerning the origins of the Serenity Prayer. I found i... more
this site & sobriety
I just made it 30 days sober and this site helped me to do it. Because of that I donated on-line. I don't have much mon... more
Email Addresses for Sharin
Sometimes we're a little bit nervous about posting to sites like this because of anonymity or privacy issues.  That... more
Another lonely night
I've been keeping my computer on the pillow next to me, just in case someone needs someone to talk to during the night.&... more



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